Just wanted you to know not all mothers are selfish!! I have done trying now!!
]]>For the most part my son gets to see his daughter once every 2 weeks or so (which I know doesn’t sound too bad) however he is not allowed to call his daughter when she is with her mother but the mother calls my son to control and bully him continuously when my granddaughter is with him.
The mother bullies my son into providing a lot more money than he should do; and it seems that overall if my son complies with her demands then things stay on an “even keel” but as soon as he tries to stand up to mother, she flies off the handle and he gets a threat from the mother’s boyfriend.
It is really hard to take seeing my son bullied like this, I have stood up to the mother and her new boyfriend (not in a physically confrontational, provocative way) to show my son some support, but as the mother of my granddaughter this nasty woman seems to “have all the aces”
]]>its been 4 weeks since my daughter is back to her home… my wife tells me she will only come back when her back problems are sorted as she gets help from her mother… the interesting thing here is although she has back problem and quotes that she is just having rest at her parents ; i also know that she has gone to work and attending friends functions etc.. where is the back problem now? where is the rest?
When she does allow me to see my daughter -it will be on the provision that i can not take the daughter away from house. I recently told her that ok fine why do not you sort out your back and i will take leave from work and take care of daughter instead… obviously she said NO straightaway… I am very hurt and like most people do not have much left in the bank after paying all the bills and mortgage! I dont know what to do as my inlaws have refused me to come to their house on an argument over my daughters care… very interfering inlaws i have say… perhaps the problem in our marriage and this now. I feel extremely frustated that Gosh! what have i done wrong in life that as a father can not even see my smily baby’s face whenever i want.. shame! Any suggestions here please?
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