Spare A Thought For The Children Who Are Victims Of Parental Alienation This Easter

It is Reasonable for a father to be deprived of his children after a vengeful mother , seeking for ATTENTION , is coached by A FEMALE CAFCASS OFFICER who lies on Oath ! Why is this a such a CORRUPT place ! Where else do Fathers need to turn to ?

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John and Stuart,
I can sympathise with you both 100%. My soon to be ex-wife has severe mental health problems which means she simply cannot cope with caring for our son (who is 4) and our new baby girl (who is now 8 months old). She flipped and decided she didn’t want to be with me in March this year. She too left and went to a women’s aid refuge blaming me for being “an abusive husband” and being “controlling”. I’m lucky and come from a very loving and caring family, and I don’t even know what being controlling or abusive means. All I ever did was love my wife, despite her well documented health issues, and love my son and daughter as much as I could. Social service became involved with us even before my daughter was born as my wife had some kind of breakdown in the school with my son which raised concerns. The social are absolutley useless and keep telling me their only concern is the welfare of the children. Can anybody explain to me how it’s in the best interest of my children, especially my son, to be kept away from their loving father? I did manage to get some contact with them started again on approx June 16th, about 10 weeks after she left. This continued without any issue until August 19th when I had a fall out with my ex-parents in law. They turned up to collect the children from me, as their mother was “too busy” to get them herself (she was actually attending church), without car seats for a 4 year old and 8 month old baby. I explained I wasn’t happy about this, and that they couldn’t take the children without the correct seats, and all my ex-father in law could do was tell me to “p*ss off, p*ss off”. Charming. Anyway, as tit-for-tat the ex-wife then abruptly stopped contact, telling people I had smacked my son (never, ever true), and that I couldn’t see my children. The social do nothing as it’s her word against mine, and my son and daughter are caught in the middle. We had some great times during the summer when I had contact, and now she’s stopped it again. It’s absolutely appalling that my son is allowed to suffer like this, and everybody in “the system” just stands by and let’s it happen. This country has absolutely no system for dealing fairly or sympathetically with family breakdown. If I was some kind of wife beater or child abuser, then I would get what I deserve, but I’m not, and I just feel like a criminal that’s been given a sentence for no reason whatsoever. It’s an absolute living nightmare, and the social service system in this country is an absolute disgrace and absolutley not fit for purpose.

I have a court hearing at the end of October where I’m praying for contact to be re-started. The whole social services system should really be ashamed of themselves, from the Home Secretary down for being part of a system, and allowing a system to continue, that treats loving fathers who’ve done nothing to break up the family in the first place, no different from the worst kind of criminal.

I wish all fathers in a similar position to me all the luck in the world, and hope justice is done, for all your children’s sake. They need their fathers in the their lives more then ever if there is an unstable or vindictive mother involved. They need the stabilty of their father to show them “normal” life, not the twisted “self, self, self” world in which a lot of these clinically depressed women live in. Good luck to you all…

i fought very long and hard for over 2 years for shared resadency ie equil rights i belive i should of had shared resadency equil rights all aloang but sadly the goverment dont belive in equality during those 2 and a half years my children were not just stopped from having any contact with me because of false alligations but there grandparents also even though no aligations were ever made about them it sounds like a happy ending but it isent i won shared resadency but because one of my sons is disabled my ex wife wonted to claim extra money in carrers allowance on top of the full rate d.l.a she already gets for him she had to stop me carring for him so she ignored the shared resadency order knowing that she will only get £85 fine of the cort for emosionally abuseing my kids again but will gain a extra £60 a week for the rest of her life and will never have to look for a job this was in febuary i havent seen my children since because of how long it is taking to go back to cort for a enforcement order theve not been allowed to see there grandparents since febuary eather yesterday my dad there grandfather died thell never see him again im not even allowed to tell them via a phone call because only the cort can enforce the order at the moment its just a worthless peice of paper the police and social services cant do a thing and if i do anything it will be me who gets arrested because of my gender after such a long mercyless battle my supposed equil rights was just another worthless peice of paper and the goverment is still rewarding my ex wife with money for abusing my children the system destroyed my kids childhood murdered my dad and david cameron has the cheek to blame parents for the riots what parents? the goverment stole those kids parents from them there was always going to be a backlash you cant steal a childs dad and grandparents then blame the dad and grandparents when that child grows up angery and hating the system that abused them im scared that my kids fuiter is going to be no diffrent from those angry young people rioting they have a lot to be angry about i cant stand it when polititions go on about other countrys poor human rights this country cant even stop abusing children what right do they have critisising anyone else

Long story short, I was asked by my wife to move out to my sisters for a couple of weeks to give her some space, which I did as a loving husband trying to work at his marraige, she agreed to let me take my son with me as I would miss him so much, she agreed. She never tried to contact him for the first 8 days, In the second week (Tuesday) she agreed that I would move back home, On the Thursday she called the police and put in a false child abuse charge against me (this was closed straight away!) the next day, I get a text saying she no longer wanted to be with me and she had contacted a solicitor (since found out this was another lie) She took my son out of school early so I couldnt pick him up myself. The Easter holidays started and she ignored all contact from me begging to see him, it’s the worst pain I have ever endured. She spoke to my family that I need a solicitor to see my son and arrange contact. I arranged mediation, she said she was advised to ignore it and to change the locks on my home. I went to my home to talk to her but she was not in, I managed to hug my son for 5 minutes before leaving. I have lost my home, access to my son (not even a phone call to say goodnight). The system is an absolute farce. I plan to go to court for shared residency, She’ll probably want me to go from a fulltime dad to every other weekend. I cant do that. My son is my best friend and he needs me in his life.