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I have now been battling in court for two and a half years and I am getting the relationship back with my daughter. When she is with me, we play and have really great fun and the bond appears very strong, despite the fact that she still maintains the fact that she is scared of me, which hurts deeply as there really is no foundation for it, except for a minor incident two and a half years previous.
I have been through two final hearings and never had any feeling that there is a final end in sight and in less than ten days I am due for my third final hearing, which I thought would be much more positive after I have:
- actively made a serious effort to counter any evil efforts of my daughter’s mother
- read and acted upon the amazing book “Divorce Poison”
- sat down with my daughter and talked through the whole madness of her being “scared” of me and she seemed to understand just how silly the whole idea of being scared of me is
If it wasn’t a totally draining situation already, having to explain to a CAFCASS officer that my daughter cannot possibly be scared of me, is both upsetting and embarrassing.
I spoil my child as much as possible and put her first in everything, so how is it possible for a CAFCASS officer to be even asking me questions about my anger and moods, when I don’t actually have anger issues, especially against the one person that makes your life so special.
I hate the family law system in the UK, there is no such thing as equal parenting in the UK and the sheer madness of CAFCASS makes it even worse. When faced with a situation like mine, why don’t the courts or CAFCASS meet the parent and child together, see for themselves what lies are being spread and actually get to the root of the problem and help the innocent parties (usually the child).
It is sheer madness to go on for two and a half years without only ever sitting down with the father and child ONCE. Fathers rights are being ignored every day and the next generation will grow up with serious mental issues because of the government’s lack of support to fathers.
I understand there may be a lack of resources, but our children are the most important part of our lives and represent the future.
If we allow bitter, twisted mothers to use children as weapons against their previous partners, then the future does not look promising.
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Iain Menzies
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Good afternoon, I am at 14 court hearings, 7 judges, my wife has had 3 llegal companies, we have a 16.4 guardian for my daughter , (that used up a further 7 months) they have had also 3 legal companies 2 years I have seen my daughter 3 times once in a contact centre , I went 5 times my wife went 4 times she refused to allow me to see my daughter the other 3 times even although her solicitors had said everthing is OK . Also my daughter wanted to see me and her siblings but her mother refused her.
the second two times at core contact services run by Cafcass although they will say its all independant. Even the Core Services reports are not written by the Core witnessess/guards. So who does write them? It all comes on Cafcass headed note paper draw your own conclusions.
With two witnessess(guards) to check if I am OK.
My daughter does not want to see me or her 4 brothers and sisters all who live with me ever again until she is 18 (she is 8 now).
Two of her sisters are not mine but are her mothers from a previous relationship that she left with me when she ran with my daughter.
Cafcass are shocking they lie and are easily caught out , they are arogant use various data such as Duluth Caada dash Sturge Glazer all of which target Domestic violence of which there was none at all and my wife has hand written a letter to support this. I t is all done I think to support the Cafcass hypothesis of bad fathers and abuse of which in my case has not happened.
Do not forget the money that is attached to a child and the housing etc always a good reason to put plans into action. In excess of £500 P/M in cash plus benefits. for one child.
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M Sandoz
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Sorry to inform you, but as reported by OFSTED cafcass are Inadequate.
Comically the Cafcass report for the West Midlands detailed 8 keys area’s as inadequate, yet had the management running the staff as satisfactory. Yeah, the ships sinking but hey Captain what a fine job you are doing!!!
It isn’t madness, just plain incompetance. Most of the staff were drafted in from the social services and welfare offices, and had full experience with disfunctional and socially inept parents, however no experience in divorce. They lumped the two together and hence, any query from a mother is considered as guilty until proven innocent.
I spoil my two daughters too, whenever i get to see them. My role has been reduced to one of grandparent. 8 years and counting.